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		<title>Law Of Attraction Coach: Your Thoughts Really Do Create Your Experience</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2010 19:28:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At this point you may have heard that Quantum Mechanics has discovered that everything comes down to vibration. Did you know that Einstein at one point said: energy is everything? It&#8217;s now understood that everything we see, everything that is not seen] is composed of energy. Anything that has come into our physical existence was [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At this point you may have heard that Quantum Mechanics has  discovered that everything comes down to vibration. Did you know that  Einstein at one point said: energy is everything? It&#8217;s now understood  that everything we see, everything that is not seen] is composed of  energy. Anything that has come into our physical existence was at one  time a thought. This thought created, invented, or produced a thing.</p>
<p>Quantum Physicists have found that a person observing reality has a  direct relationship and impact on the outcome of what he or she is  seeing. This phenomenon is named the Observer Effect.</p>
<p>Human  thoughts have the ability to influence outcomes, plain and simple. It  has been proven over and over in the laboratory. All energy vibrates at  varying rates. The lowest frequency and most dense of energies appear to  be solid and unmoving. Yet quantum physics has found that because of  the nature of the way atoms work, all objects on the atomic level are  humming with so much space left in the molecules that following the  account for all of the particles there is more void than actual  particles. Even though we see distinct consistencies between objects and  people, we are all connected in the realm of energy &#8211; at the level of  mind.</p>
<p>Your emotions influence, and manifest. They&#8217;re manifesting  reality all the time. The question is: what are you creating? I use the  word CREATE in the sense that all thoughts you have are creative “this  creative thought is somewhere on the stream of being manifested. Based  on the focus of your thought. So we know from discoveries in new physics  that all objects are fundamentally energy and your thoughts create.</p>
<p>The <a href="http://blog.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of Attraction</a> states like attracts like. Whatever you put your mind&#8217;s eye on will  manifest more in your life. The Universe, Universal Intelligence, Divine  Mind, God, Source, whatever your name for the balance that retains the  planets&#8217; perfect harmony, that manifests a huge tree from an acorn and a  full grown human from two little cells, That Power utterly adores YOU.  That power knows you. You are intimately linked with your Source. And  everyone was born into this physical Universe with Free Will. Because  your Source/God/the Universe knows you and loves you, and because you  have the will to make choices, it would never not adhere to your choices  or preferences. Also, it carries no judgment whatsoever concerning what  you&#8217;re putting your attention on or what your desires are. Rather, it  faithfully aligns with what you are energetically transmitting. If you  need the support of a <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/">Law of Attraction Coach</a>,  by all means get support! Having an unbiased listener to check in with  can help you move off outdated patterns much faster.</p>
<p>The Universe  says, &#8220;Oh, Michelle must want more people to be angry with. Perfect!&#8221;  The Universe then starts matching and mirroring back to you what you&#8217;re  asking for. So that&#8217;s the idea, in a nutshell; how your mind creates and  attracts more of what you are thinking. Understanding that, don&#8217;t you  think it would be a good idea to clean up your thoughts? It&#8217;s a  worthwhile practice. Try it. I know you will see amazing results.</p>
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		<title>Relationship Attraction: Create A Relationship By Clearing An Area For Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Jul 2010 19:19:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s usually recommended to allow actual room for a new relationship to show up in your life. To put it another way, clear out a closet, and some drawers. Make your living space comfortable for two people to live comfortable. And while that is important, it&#8217;s even more important to make space for your emotions. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s usually recommended to allow actual room for a new relationship  to show up in your life. To put it another way, clear out a closet, and  some drawers. Make your living space comfortable for two people to live  comfortable. And while that is important, it&#8217;s even more important to  make space for your emotions.</p>
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<p>Think of letting go as giving  yourself freedom from your past. Imagine emotional release and letting  go of limiting habits of thought about relationships as forgiveness. You  are making energetic space for the wonderful, new, healthy, and perfect  relationship to show up into.</p>
<p>I can hear a lot of you at this  moment voicing in your head, &#8220;Yeah but, I do not think he truly needs to  be let go for his behavior. He was in the wrong and that&#8217;s simply  that!&#8221; Watch the energy you are let be cut off from your energy. This is  a slow leak in your energy field and after a while, it will deplete  your energy, if it has not already. Furthermore, this slow energy leak  prevents you from holding all of your power focused in this current  moment. When you do not retain your power in the present, do you think  you are going to be a powerful, meaningful creator? It causes it to be  that much harder.</p>
<p>Take your real power back by releasing and  evaporating the past, of judgments that hold you down, muss up your  harmonic field and halt you from going forward to having the life you  were born to live. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is  hugely helpful for <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y_K-MDO6zP8">Relationship  Attraction</a>, and is not hard to grasp.</p>
<p>I find that the area  of forgiving can be a loaded one. I am not talking about the type of  forgiving where we&#8217;re excusing another person&#8217;s unacceptable behavior.  It is important to have healthy boundaries in place for you. To know how  you feel concerning who you want in your life and who you do not. How  you desire to invest your time and with what people. It is important to  realize what functions well for you and what doesn&#8217;t. The method in  which you invest your time and vibration and with what people, what  feels good and what feels like an energy drain.</p>
<p>Being able to  forgive is not a moral position. It&#8217;s not about the correctness of  anything. Forgiveness is letting go of those pains, slights, abuses,  losses, grudges, and creating space for what you DO want to show up.  Morality has little to do with forgiveness.</p>
<p>Do your utmost at  evaporating the past by releasing and forgiving yourself and others.  This&#8217;ll give you a pure canvas on which to manifest your ideal love  relationship.</p>
<p>You can learn more secrets to relationship  attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and  Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Law Of Attraction Coach: Important Questions On Keeping Cool About Money</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jun 2010 19:07:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[How do I manifest wealth if I do not have enough? How do I align with my desires for enough money when I don&#8217;t make the money I need presently? How do I get more wealth to manifest when I become anxious and even occasionally hopeless concerning money ever being manifested? You could be thinking [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How do I manifest wealth if I do not have enough? How do I align with  my desires for enough money when I don&#8217;t make the money I need  presently?</p>
<p>How do I get more wealth to manifest when I become  anxious and even occasionally hopeless concerning money ever being  manifested?</p>
<p>You could be thinking &#8220;I realize that I am out of  alignment with what I desire. And I know that I can&#8217;t manifest more  wealth when I&#8217;ve got my focus on what I don&#8217;t want.However, dealing with  my limiting thoughts and emotions are like reigning in wild horses.&#8221;</p>
<p>What&#8217;s the solution?</p>
<p>The answer is asking yourself some  serious questions about your energy and beliefs you feel about creating  wealth. What do you believe about money? What were you taught about  wealth? What about people who have lots of money? What beliefs do you  have concerning what it takes to receive wealth?</p>
<p>A lot of great  people have found themselves in a swamp with respect to lack of wealth  and debt. A lot of good people have lost jobs, lost their homes, and  have gotten themselves into what feels like heaping debt. The first  thing many people do is react, point fingers and feel ashamed. Following  this, they reach for fear, anxiety, stress and then more blame and  shame. According to the <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of  Attraction</a>, your thoughts are just going to reflect back to us an  increased amount of chances for us to be stressed, shameful and annoyed.</p>
<p>The only one who places judgment on you is you. The Universe loves  you and doesn&#8217;t look at you with blame or shame.</p>
<p>The most  effective way I can think of to move your vibration on such a loaded  topic as money is to realize what the resistance is to begin with. Jot  it down in a journal if you want. What were the beliefs taught from when  you were a child and concerning your current situation?</p>
<p>The  following step is to shift your vibration up a little bit at a time.  Here&#8217;s some bridging thoughts that will shift your vibration from where  you are to where you desire to be. You can use <a href="http://blog.nanettegeiger.com/">Positive Affirmations Self Esteem</a> to help you in the process of shifting your energy!</p>
<p>- It sure  feels yucky to be so anxious about wealth.</p>
<p>- I suppose I was  actually taught to be cautious and careful with money. As if there&#8217;s not  enough.</p>
<p>- I&#8217;ve embraced a belief that does not serve me.</p>
<p>-  No wonder it&#8217;s difficult for me to receive money and lasting financial  freedom.</p>
<p>- It isn&#8217;t what I desire to believe. However, here I am  with a thought that&#8217;s not my own and these thoughts are messing with my  manifesting.</p>
<p>- I suppose they were simply telling me the best  advice they could. They were taught to be wary of scarcity as well.</p>
<p>-  If I think about it, other parts of my life are working and that  vibration comes easy to me.</p>
<p>- I have wonderful friends. My body  works really well. I create great information like this article.</p>
<p>-  Alright, so now I desire to do something about my money vibe.</p>
<p>- I  do not have to deal with it all right now.</p>
<p>- However, I can ease  up a bit and let go of the stress and anxiety just a bit at this very  moment.</p>
<p>- I don&#8217;t have to force myself to change and immediately  start creating money.</p>
<p>- I can take this a step at a time.</p>
<p>-  I like it when I do not put pressure on myself.</p>
<p>- I feel better.</p>
<p>- I can take a deep breath (breathe) and take it easy just a small  amount about wealth.</p>
<p>- I know when I relax, creative ideas begin  to emerge. Ideas concerning how to make more money.</p>
<p>- How can I  provide advice or cause my job to be even more valuable so I can deal  with other people&#8217;s problems?</p>
<p>- People, employers, and companies  give you money when you can provide better solutions to their problems.</p>
<p>- What might I do to create great value so I can be compensated with  more money?</p>
<p>- Money is simply about an energy exchange after  all.</p>
<p>- Universe give me a wonderful idea on how I can create more  value.</p>
<p>- Universe, how might I offer more value to my job, or  friends?</p>
<p>- I could also start to appreciate what I already have.</p>
<p>- I can be happy for the companies (utilities, electricity, phone,  landlord, etc.) that have all given me their trust.</p>
<p>- Wow. I&#8217;m  worthy of their trust.</p>
<p>- I am worthy of a lot of amazing things  and experiences.</p>
<p>- It&#8217;s perfectly ok for me to experience amazing  things.</p>
<p>- It is natural for me to want more money.</p>
<p>- It  is ok for me to come into alignment with my desire for more wealth.</p>
<p>-  I really feel like I am in a much better point of attraction now.</p>
<p>-  And all I have to do is continue moving my vibration whenever I feel  &#8216;less than&#8217; concerning anything, namely money.</p>
<p>The only thing it  takes to reign in your wild horses is to try some focused thought. If  you&#8217;ll practice these types of things every day, while trying to strive  for better and better feeling thoughts, you will see the changes and  then new experiences coming in to help you let in more money. Happy vibe  tweaking!</p>
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		<title>Positive Affirmations Can Help You Achieve Greater Self Esteem</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jun 2010 18:13:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#8217;s halting you from creating the kind of relationship that you can&#8217;t wait to be a part of? What keeps you struggling with manifesting all the money you desire? What is holding you in poverty? Can you see the reasons you tell yourself for these things? In the answer is the reason for why you [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What&#8217;s halting you from creating the kind of relationship that you  can&#8217;t wait to be a part of? What keeps you struggling with manifesting  all the money you desire? What is holding you in poverty? Can you see  the reasons you tell yourself for these things? In the answer is the  reason for why you are always in conflict with what you desire. You can  use <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/">Positive  Affirmations Self Esteem</a> to assist you along the way!</p>
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<p>Remember  that each limiting belief is a program that the subconscious mind is  executing without hesitation. Neuroscientists have revealed that your  conscious mind only operates at best about 5% of the day. 95% or more of  our daily lives (for most people ninety nine percent) we operate our  lives on autopilot, the subconscious mind.</p>
<p>In the area of  processing information the subconscious mind is over a million times  more powerful than the conscious mind.</p>
<p>So then you can begin  searching for more powerful questions, such as, &#8220;How do I make myself  more aware of what is blocked from my view, or what my limiting beliefs  actually are&#8221;?</p>
<p>What is stopping you from getting your ideal  career isn&#8217;t due to a shoddy economy, or due to that fact that you don&#8217;t  have the right connections. What&#8217;s keeping you from creating enough  money is not because you do not have the right skill set. What is  holding you apart from your perfect love relationship is NOT that you  are too old, or that all the good ones are married or because you live  out in a rural area.</p>
<p>It all starts with clarifying what you  really desire. After that you build a want that you can think yourself  into.</p>
<p>Einstein said, &#8220;No problem&#8217;s solution is found from the  same level of consciousness that manifested it.&#8221; You have to intend and  think your way out of the level of the problem and into the area of the  solution. Intention has creative energy. Humans are creators. We were  manifested in the likeness of the Creator. When we exist with this power  of creative energy we&#8217;re moving to that other area that Einstein  referred to.</p>
<p>Set an intention to create a SOLUTION. Rather than  to figure out the PROBLEM from the perspective of the problem. This goes  far past the level of the intellect. We&#8217;re tapping into Universal  forces when we access this type of intention.</p>
<p>Most accounts of  inventors working on a solution to a problem that has mystified them  have said that the answer arrived in a flash of insight, or in a dream  or some unrelated situation.</p>
<p>To tap into some creative energy  from the perspective of the solution, begin to imagine what the solution  would feel like once it was found.</p>
<p>I desire a great paying job,  with intelligent co-workers, with an easy commute. What would you feel  like after getting that? How would you feel at the start of your day?  How about the closing of your day? Because the work environment is  enjoyable and you&#8217;re respected by your boss and co-workers, you&#8217;re  excited to go to work every day and feel good on the way home.</p>
<p>That  is the kind of energy you access during the attraction stages of  finding your ideal work. If there are not any counter intentions  lurking, your creation will come quite rapidly.</p>
<p>You must stay  clean and clear with what you expect and root out the negative energy  and you will be on your way to fulfilling anything you want.</p>
<p style="font-size: 100%; font-weight: bold;">You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/" target="_blank">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Law Of Attraction Coach: Do You Speak The Way Of The Universe?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2010 19:51:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Law of Attraction talks in the the language of the Universe which is energy. The Universe understands vibration. It is not listening to what&#8217;s coming out of your mouth. It it is not English, French, or Spanish it picks up on and responds to. You cannot state “I want more money” and vibrate at [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Law of Attraction talks in the the language of the Universe which  is energy. The Universe understands vibration. It is not listening to  what&#8217;s coming out of your mouth. It it is not English, French, or  Spanish it picks up on and responds to. You cannot state “I want more  money” and vibrate at the frequency of &#8216;anxious&#8217; and expect to create  monetary wealth.</p>
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<p>And we are speaking a vibrational message all  day, every day. The Universe responds to your energy, not your words.  Your brain functions are electrical impulses. They have frequencies.  They project. What increases the power of those frequencies is the  consistency of what you&#8217;re projecting. What adds AMPLITUDE and VELOCITY is EMOTION. Keep in mind, Emotion is magnetic! If you need the support  of a <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com">Law of Attraction Coach</a>, by all means get support! Having an  independent listener to talk to can help you move away from outdated  patterns much faster.</p>
<p>Here is when programming from our past and  mass thinking comes into play.</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh, this horrible economy.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;I  am so stuck, I&#8217;m an artist, I was never taught to use money wisely.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Oh no I am over the hill and every good man is taken.&#8221;</p>
<p>For  God&#8217;s sake TURN OFF THE TV! These commercials about diseases and  prescriptions you need and vulnerability. The news broadcasts about how  bad things are. You don&#8217;t need that type of thinking. You need people  who are going to believe in your possibilities in life, not support you  in limiting yourself!</p>
<p>Your anxiety and complaints are  affirmations for what you do not want. Your pain is a request for more.  Can you get that? Your thoughts and complaining are affirmations for  what you don&#8217;t desire. Your anxiety is registered by the Universe as a  desire for more. I do not care how justified they seem! If you really  desire to change your life, don&#8217;t wait for the economy to get better.  There is always going to be justification to put the blame on someone  else. Shift your thinking! Find out how you can strengthen yourself  right now with the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=51sBEJy4T9Y">Law  of Attraction</a>.</p>
<p>The Universe can figure out the process of  matching you up to what you want under any and every circumstance. But  you NEED to get the static out of the transmission.</p>
<p>Scientific  studies say that the vibrational field of your heart is 5000 times more  powerful than that of the brain. I suggest you energize your intentions  with emotional energy. Now here&#8217;s a truly important piece. So, your  thoughts are electrical and they transmit. Your emotions are magnetic  and attract.</p>
<p>Well what are you going to do with the thoughts that  get shot down by that negative self-talk? Will that dilute the good  you&#8217;re attempting with the energy work? What about the thoughts that you  don&#8217;t even know are humming in your subconscious? So it is true: Your  beliefs at this moment is your current point of attraction. And they&#8217;re  almost hard-wired in there from somewhere &#8220;out there&#8221;. I can tell you  this is something that was not in your control. A <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/">Relationship Life Coach</a> can assist you in stripping yourself of inhibiting beliefs and  thoughts.</p>
<p>Our cultural programs go so unquestioned that they are  perceived as TRUTH. Recall, at one time humans trusted that the Earth  was flat. They locked up people who thought information could be  projected through the air waves. Sometimes it is difficult to discern  our beliefs that hold us back – they appear as the air we breathe – they  are totally invisible.</p>
<p style="font-size: 100%; font-weight: bold;">You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/" target="_blank">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/</a></p>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Jun 2010 17:48:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are a being made of energy. You&#8217;re a spiritual person experiencing a human life. Maybe you&#8217;ve heard that. Just realize that Source, or Universal Intelligence adores you! Everyone came into this life with choice. We have the ability to choose how we want to think and emotionally deal with problems. Oftentimes it doesn&#8217;t feel [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are a being made of energy. You&#8217;re a spiritual person  experiencing a human life. Maybe you&#8217;ve heard that. Just realize that  Source, or Universal Intelligence adores you!</p>
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<p>Everyone came into  this life with choice. We have the ability to choose how we want to  think and emotionally deal with problems. Oftentimes it doesn&#8217;t feel  this way, especially when we realize our thoughts and feelings making us  think we don&#8217;t always have the choice to change ourselves. We feel  something and we are on our way to a thought train. It doesn&#8217;t work!</p>
<p>However, God did manifest us all with free will. Humans have choice  on what we desire to think, how we desire to feel, what we place our  mind&#8217;s eye on. All humans came forth into this physical Universe with  the will to choose. Enough to spare and to share, correct? If you need  the help of a <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com">Law of Attraction Coach</a>, by all means go get support!  Having an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move away  from old patterns much faster.</p>
<p>Due to the fact that God knows you  and adores you, and because you have FREE WILL, God would never go  against your choices or preferences – even if they&#8217;re not in your best  interest. What is more is Source has no judgments at all concerning what  you are placing your attention on or whatever your desires are. Source,  who adores you, lovingly manifests what you are vibrationally  transmitting. Find out how you can empower yourself right now with the <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of Attraction in North Carolina</a>.</p>
<p>So you could be seeming anxious and transmitting worry about whether  or not your contract will be renewed or you might be persistently  frustrated with people paying you late. Or, you could be projecting  DREAD that the holidays are arriving soon and you have to face family,  or feel fear that you will never find the relationship of your dreams  and spend the remainder of your life lonely on Friday nights. Blah Blah  Blah – you know the drill. You can attract <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/">Law of Attraction Love</a> today and sky-rocket your level of creative potential!</p>
<p>Well, The  Universe simply says: “Oh, Michelle must desire an increasing number of  things to be worried about or annoyed about. We love Michelle very  much. Awesome. Here you go dearest Michelle, more of what you&#8217;re  transmitting”. Great! Your vibration and what shows up are always a  magnetic pair. The Universe then sets about pairing and mirroring back  to your experience circumstances and stimuli that line you up with more  things to be worried and stressed about.</p>
<p>In this way, the  Universe acts a lot like an Intention Fulfillment Machine. No argument  about what you desire. No judgment. Just sends back more of what you&#8217;re  sending out. Now if that&#8217;s so, and it is&#8230; do you not think it might be  a great idea to achieve clarity concerning what you TRULY desire?</p>
<p style="font-size: 100%; font-weight: bold;">You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/" target="_blank">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/</a></p>
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		<title>When You Do Not Like What Is Happening In Your Life, Look Around</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2010 18:37:32 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[You&#8217;ve got a certain energy level] right now. If you&#8217;re not content with what is coming into your life, you MUST be able to own your intentions – take complete ownership and only then can you transform it. The Universe is not dumping things on you due to a past life. You don&#8217;t need to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You&#8217;ve got a certain energy level] right now. If you&#8217;re not content  with what is coming into your life, you MUST be able to own your  intentions – take complete ownership and only then can you transform it.  The Universe is not dumping things on you due to a past life. You don&#8217;t need to be a good little girl and pay your dues before you can attract  your dream career. It is not that way!</p>
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<p>If you&#8217;re not happy with  what is coming into your life and you do not realize what&#8217;s in your way,  how are you ever going to harmonize your vibration? Slapping  affirmations over your already dysfunctional life is like slathering  butter cream frosting over a mud cake. Gross. Can&#8217;t eat that. It doesn&#8217;t  work! Find out how you can strengthen you immediately with the <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com">Law of Attraction</a></p>
<p>Your vibration and what is manifesting in your  experience is always the same thing. Like manifests like. So, your lack  of money, or love, your low self-image or the job that you dread isn&#8217;t a  result of the economy or the city you live in or anything else outside  of yourself.</p>
<p>The problem is not external &#8211; with the economy, the  government or who is in office, how old you are, your ethnicity, your  gender or sexual orientation. Your problem ISN&#8217;T that you have kids who  need you at home or an un-supportive husband or the fact that you didn&#8217;t  attend the right schools. You can manifest <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKZy2COaQko">Law of Attraction  Relationships</a> right now and increase your level of positive  potential!</p>
<p>The problem is your beliefs about what is possible for  you. Your limited patterns of thought are keeping you limited. You have  to 1) figure out what your inhibiting beliefs are, and 2) release said  limiting beliefs, and 3) replace them with ideas (and beliefs) that  support and empower you. Do this and you&#8217;ll start to see shifts and a  new experience starts to unfold right in front of your very eyes. I am  speaking of actually changing your energetic field.</p>
<p>Does it take  practice? YES! What else do you have going on in your life? Are you  concerned with transforming yourself? Will this take some time? Much  less time than it took to put those limiters in place. I&#8217;m going to show  you how to do that. We&#8217;re going by what neuroscience is currently  stating is possible. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is  amazingly helpful for <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKZy2COaQko">Relationships  Attraction</a>, and it&#8217;s not hard to understand.</p>
<p>As I said  earlier, we have all heard that all things are energy. How about this:  Albert Einstein said “ENERGY is EVERYTHING!!!&#8221; That is essential. Grasp  that a minute &#8230; “ENERGY is EVERYTHING!!!&#8221; Your energy encompasses all  things. Right?</p>
<p>Most people just don&#8217;t understand what is running  them, or the impact of what is running them. Your ideas change the world  around you and are highly creative. They are manifesting at all times.  The question is: Are you aware of what you&#8217;re manifesting by way of your  thoughts? What quality of things are you projecting out there and do  you realize what these things are?</p>
<p>Have a look at what your daily  judgments, negativity and what your mental monologue is saying and  clean it up. You just do not need to be a victim of your negative  thoughts. Clean up your mental monologue and watch stupendous results  start to manifest around you.</p>
<p style="font-size: 100%; font-weight: bold;">You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/" target="_blank">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Law Of Attraction Relationships: Who Owns Your Thoughts, You Or Your Subconscious?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Jun 2010 18:08:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[At this point everyone has been told that what you think creates and that all things is energy. That is all well and good, but how about you? Imagine this&#8230; What you think is very attractive. But do you know what thoughts you in reality transmit? What about those recurring feelings of anxiety – I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At this point everyone has been told that what you think creates and  that all things is energy. That is all well and good, but how about you?  Imagine this&#8230; What you think is very attractive. But do you know what  thoughts you in reality transmit? What about those recurring feelings  of anxiety – I am almost forty and I&#8217;m still not married – How will I  ever get free from my debt? – your persistent thinking is persistently  being sent out.</p>
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<p>Think of being free of these buggers forever so  you can begin to clean up your vibration and create more of what you  desire. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for <a href="http://blog.nanettegeiger.com">Relationships Attraction</a>, and is not hard to grasp.</p>
<p>Here is the thing &#8230;</p>
<p>Your  thoughts run on a few different levels. And often these levels conflict  with one another.</p>
<p>There are CONSCIOUS THOUGHTS – things your  mind tells you you want.</p>
<p>Below that we have UNCONSCIOUS THOUGHTS –  your beliefs concerning attaining what you desire.</p>
<p>Then we have  SUBCONSCIOUS THOUGHT – the inhibiting thoughts and behaviors that serve  as a kink in your vibration.</p>
<p>Thankfully we also have  SUPERCONSCIOUS thought – I like to define that as the conversation that  we have with our Higher Self, Inner Being, Spirit, or Soul. Those are  thoughts about your TRUTH your Real Self. The beauty, freedom,  abundance, and joy that you actually are.</p>
<p>Now imagine YOU  attempting to deal with all this energy – conscious, unconscious – all  of it. Imagine yourself on a horse-drawn carriage – similar to a stage  coach. The coach has four horses. Each one symbolizes various levels of  thought. One&#8217;s going one way. The second horse is intent on moving over  there. Yet another wants to veer off to the left. Still another is  halting and rearing up every now and again. You can attract your own <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/">Law of Attraction  Relationships</a> today and increase your level of positive energy!</p>
<p>These  are your split intentions. It&#8217;s split energy. You&#8217;re sending very  confusing messages out, which is why not much progress can occur.</p>
<p>Have  you reined in your horses at all?</p>
<p>Understanding how to harness  your energy is KEY!! Transform yourself into a deliberate attractor and  grasp a life that is fun, full of success and filled with that wonderful  surge of movement in a positive direction. It&#8217;s the feeling of having  what you want manifest. Find out how you can strengthen you immediately  with the <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of Attraction</a>.</p>
<p>Do you desire to know what your current intentions are – conscious  or unconscious?. That is easy. Simply look at what&#8217;s arriving in your  life &#8230; lack of financial security, loneliness, an emotionally  unavailable romance, or dead-end job. These things are your vibrational  match. The starting step in being a meaningful creator is harnessing  your current vibrational level so you can transform it in order to  create more of the things you desire. Own it, then change it.</p>
<p style="font-size: 100%; font-weight: bold;">You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/" target="_blank">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com</a></p>
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		<title>﻿How To Turn Yourself Into An Ultra Magnet To Abundance</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Jun 2010 17:59:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[To become super magnetic to whatever you want by clarifying exactly what you want and the reason you should have it. Put another way&#8230; How DO you clarify your desire? You figure out your want by stating it, jotting it on paper and accepting that you may have at least a few outdated belief patterns [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To become super magnetic to whatever you want by clarifying exactly what you want and the reason you should have it. Put another way&#8230; How DO you clarify your desire? You figure out your want by stating it, jotting it on paper and accepting that you may have at least a few outdated belief patterns processing in the background, but being open and willing to get rid of these inhibiting emotions and thoughts.</p>
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<p>Usually instantaneously, you&#8217;ll realize what said outdated patterns are. Write in a dated log to write down what limiting patterns are coming up. As you write down your thoughts you&#8217;ll easily look back and view the progress you have manifested. You&#8217;ll see steady progress if you take heart what I proposing. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for <a href="http://blog.nanettegeiger.com/articles/2-law-of-attraction/86-learn-to-turn-yourself-into-a-super-magnet-to-prosperity">Relationship Attraction</a>, and is not hard to grasp.</p>
<p>Let us place a further difference on desire and resisting energy to said desire. The moment you have a desire – to own a thriving business or long-standing wealth in your life, you will realize it manifests from what is presently NOT in your experience. In other words, if you already had it, you would not be asking for it. You&#8217;d have it in your hands. This means that you recognize that you have a desire from the perspective of NOT experiencing it yet. For many of us, that sends forth an emotional signal of lack, of not acquiring yet, and usually we have some negativity. We will name negative emotion CONTRAST. Because it is in contrast to what is desired, which is easy inflow of wealth. Some to spare and to share, right? If you need the help of a <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of Attraction Coach</a>, by all means get support! Using an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move off old patterns much faster.</p>
<p>So now you&#8217;re experiencing CONTRAST to what&#8217;s desired. The CONSTRAST is actually nothing more than INFORMATION. That is right. Negative emotion, or contrast to that which is desired is information. It is information that tells you you&#8217;ve got your intention placed on the lack of the thing you desire instead of already experiencing what you desire. So there&#8217;s the lack of what you want and the having of the thing you want. You should instead put attention on the type of desiring that puts you in joyous anticipation of having it. You can manifest your own <a href="http://blog.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of Attraction Love</a> right now and increase your level of positive energy!</p>
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You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to <a href="http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/" target="_blank">http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/</a></p>
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		<title>Relationships Attraction: Getting Over Your Limitations So You Can Own A Date</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2010 18:42:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette Geiger</dc:creator>
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<p>1. Competition. This is not the place to compare yourself, your previous lover, your failures, with his or hers.</p>
<p>2. Skill. Desiring to project how good you are at being an enjoyable partner is unnecessary work and that will manifest.</p>
<p>3. Chance. Remember you chose to be on this date. In the end, chance is not a factor.</p>
<p>4. Endurance. A date is not a competition to see who will outlast the other in being funny and intelligent.</p>
<p>5. Rules. Stone-set rules become the end to new possibilities.</p>
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<p>Five Practices to Engage in When Dating.</p>
<p>1. Play. Although many of these might sound basic, I&#8217;d be willing to wager many of you do not approach dating as play. Remember when you were the innocent kid playing in the sand? How perfect was that? Not a care in the world, nothing to prove. Just muddy fun! Find ways to approach your date with having fun as a first priority. Find fun even if the person on the other side of the table is a serious type. Make it a game to look for fun. You do not have to see him or her again if they can&#8217;t be easy-going and have fun. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for <a href="http://blog.nanettegeiger.com/component/content/article/2-law-of-attraction/83-law-of-attraction-love-what-to-stay-away-from-and-what-to-embrace-when-dating">Relationships Attraction</a>, and it&#8217;s not hard to grasp.</p>
<p>2. Laugh. A cousin of Play, laughing is the easiest infectious way to spread happiness. Prior to going on any date, especially a first date, tell yourself that you&#8217;ll consciously look for reasons to feel good and laugh. Smile as much as possible. At the waitress or waiter, at the host. Simply smile for no reason.</p>
<p>3. Listen. This is such an important way to build a relationship with your date. Deep listening means when you turn off the voices in your mind and tune in to the things the person on the other side of the table is saying. Of course, your critical voice will probably be desiring to sound off for a variety of reasons. You do not like the manner in which he eats his soup. She constantly plays with her hair. Stuff like that can be distracting from the main purpose. Just realize you are being distracted and pull yourself back. To reiterate, you don&#8217;t have to see them again if you do not want to. Although, this is an important practice, and it&#8217;s a building block for intimacy. You will want to use this quality in your long term relationship, so why not get your practice in now. By the way, you don&#8217;t have to listen just in the dating scene. You can create your own <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BHewJ_yOw7s">Law of Attraction Relationships</a> right now and sky-rocket your level of creative potential!</p>
<p>4. Eye Contact. Do not simply make eye contact and nod your head. Engage in deep listening while making eye contact. This is an excellent communication of your own generosity. And I can assure you, your generosity will return to you. If you need the support of a <a href="http://www.nanettegeiger.com/">Law of Attraction Coach</a>, by all means go get it! Using an unbiased listener to check in with can help you move off outdated patterns much faster.</p>
<p>5. Communicate. When it is your time to speak, strive for clarity and being heard. As you have given your attention to your date, desire the same. You have not interrupted him or her while he or she has been talking. If an interruption occurs, request the same manners. You can be polite and kind about this without causing it to be a problem. Simply nicely ask for what you&#8217;d like. Being confident with what you want takes much pressure off your date. You leave them firmly knowing what you prefer.</p>
<p>It does not matter if you&#8217;re 25 or 75 dating &#8211; simply enjoy life &#8211; if approached as a fun game, where there are no losers, your date will go much more smoothly for everyone.</p>
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