Category Archives: Relationships

Relationships Attraction: Appearance Is Not The Most Important Trait

Posted by on May 13, 2010 at 12:18 pm.

These are the results from a study taken by a well-known dating site.

Choose the most important features of a lover:

1. Looks 11%

2. Personality 30%

3. Physique 5%

4. Sense of Humor 14%

5. Eyes 10%

6. Popularity 0%

7. Smile 12%

8. Hair 7%

9. Education 7%

10. Career 3%

So you see, personality rated top, overwhelmingly!

What does this mean for a person? What does it say about two people dating? It says that personality, no matter what side of the table you are on, is a desired trait from either person’s point of view.

Now, ‘Looks’ is in many cases categorized as an external representation of a person’s persona. But as I’ve explained, ‘Personality’ was ranked at the top. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging manner, warmth, and being authentic are the characteristics that win out over visual appearance. There are a lot of us are caught up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we begin. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.

What are traits of personality? Confidence. Self-confidence to be exact. The capability to relax, enjoy, and communicate in relaxed and engaging subjects. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not difficult to grasp.

What are inherent characteristics of being confident in yourself?

1. Knowing what you desire.

2. Self-assurance. Feeling sure that what you want is within your grasp.

3. Esteem. Realizing you’re worthy of what you want.

4. Poise. In most circumstances you remain non-plussed.

What I’m pointing to is the non-physical characteristics of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has nothing to do with physical looks. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of creative potential!

A lot of people I know, whether they are getting back into the dating game, or just considering it get halted with forces of the scene. “I’m not a spring chicken anymore.” “I can’t compete with the attractive people.” “The singles game seems so superficial.”

This kind of mental dialogue will never allow you back into circulation. Being confident, having an engaging attitude, and simply having a ready, real smile and being kind, are the winners of the day. Remember that you do not have to do the singles dating scene. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in a department store, at church, on a bike ride, anywhere. Do not define yourself by what others say.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Relationships Attraction: Creating Openly Communicative Romantic Partnerships

Posted by on May 12, 2010 at 1:37 pm.

Never before in my life have I found myself knowing so many people in great romantic partnerships, primarily lasting relationships. For example Don and Barbara. I think they’ve been married 60+ years. I had not talked to Barbara since her quite long hospital stay that began in mid-December! I eventually made it a point to carry over a bouquet of flowers and have some quality time with frail little Barbara. Barbara and Don are role models for Robert and I. Their partnership is such an example of a stable, rich, lasting love. Following my visit with her I was so moved by the depth of their relationship. They have 6 adult children and are developing the great-grandchildren generation of life. Don loves Barbara with unfailing faith that her well-being will return.

Watching this type of depth transcends explanation, truly. The environment was filled with knowing and enduring. Words fail me as I try to explain the union.

Then there’s my in-laws. Another example of two lovers who have been through a full life of ups and downs. There’s a stability and lasting quality that is so grounding and comforting. They’ve produced children who have visions of relationships based on communication, respecting each other, laughter, and love. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not hard to understand.

By contrast, there are households under which a lot of us have grown up in where strife, arguing, and anxiety were a daily occurrences. Interestingly, in either case, there’s no “guarantee” that we will model our Mom and Dad. Failing marriages and partnerships still happen when the model was stable and grounded in love, mutual values, and respect.

Could It Be A Magic Formula?

So what is going on here? They appear to have a magic formula nailed down. Has it always been that easy for them? I don’t think so. However, they have continued to create and re-create possibility in their relationships. I am sure life was not all sweet and wonderful for them. However, they go back to the meaning of who they are in their connection to one another. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!

So how come it is different for many of us? We all come into this world desiring a little bit of this and a some of that. To change it up. Granted, we seem to be awakening into a higher reality where we can choose more of that which we truly prefer, instead of going on creating-by-default mode. We have learned to use the contrast as a place of distinguishing; using the contrast of a failed relationship to better define what we desire in a relationship that functions correctly; one that’s is full of love and open communication.

Of course the contrast is great information. But what if you’ve had just about as much contrast as you can handle and you do not know what to do next? If you have read “Create the Love of Your Dreams” or you haev been studying any of the Law of Attraction teachers, we all say, keep your attention pointed in the location of what it feels like to already have what it is you desire. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an independent listener to check in with can help you move away from outdated patterns much more quickly.

I’ll give you that sometimes it seems easier said than done. That’s where retaining a practice and an accountability becomes important. Why live life feeling at the receiving end of it instead of at the creation of it? Find a group, or a buddy with whom you can co-create some perfect relationship intentions and keep each other to your words and actions.

There is also personal coaching. It isn’t like psychotherapy that some people continue for years and years. Coaching is designed to give you the power to to realize where you need to change your vibration and get the most out of your own personal inner powers so you can create the life of your dreams.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law Of Attraction Coach: Find Out If You’re An Energetic Pairing To Your Desires

Posted by on May 7, 2010 at 11:48 am.

Let’s say you desire something, like a wonderful relationship or financial stability, for example, and you have been desiring it for quite a long time — 9 months, a few years, and it still has not come into your life — then there is a barrier preventing you from having what you desire. There is something amiss in the area of your energy level. If you allow yourself the time and care enough to clean up your vibration, you’ll be in an attractive mode and then allow what you desire.

Here is the problem: we don’t usuallly know what is wrong in our vibration. The pesky vibrational variances have existed long enough, we don’t really notice them. Just like the quiet hum of the machine in the background, it simply falls into the background. I call these vibrational variances counter-intentions.

A counter-intention simply projects a deeply ingrained belief that has been trained into us by earlier generations. A counter-intention adheres to a limited belief or a conversation rooted in the past of failing or lack of power. If you do not know what your counter-intentions are, that is okay. Just realize if what you want isn’t arriving, something is holding you back, and state a clear message of the thing you desire. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and sky-rocket your level of positive potential!

1. Find out the object of your desire.

2. Attune to the internal message you may have acquired about why you can’t have it.

3. When negative emotion surfaces related to why you cannot have the thing you desire or why it is taken so long to get it, soothe yourself into a better feeling thought.

Many people think that you have to quantum leap your energy level prior to real attraction. Not so. You simply have to be a little bit better consistently. You should be watching so you may know when you’re not a match to your desire. Thoughts do zip by fast, that is why tuning in to what you feel assists you in catching what is occurring in the area of your energy.

Do the work – it’ll be worth it. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Having an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move away from old patterns much faster.

Keep with it, before you know it your friends will be asking you “how did you marry the love of your dreams, get offered free cruises and make bestselling books?!” Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not difficult to understand.

This, my friend (if you desire it) CAN be YOU! Here’s to Joy and Mastery!

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law Of Attraction Relationships: Are You Energetically Paired To Your Desires?

Posted by on May 6, 2010 at 2:46 pm.

We just arrived back from a Miracle Caribbean Cruise. Why was it a miracle? Well, it was 100% free of charge and it simply fell out of nowhere and fell into our laps. Not only that, but a bunch of the big names in the Law of Attraction world were on it. Maybe you have heard about the Bob Proctor Life Success cruise. We had the opportunity to talk to, brainstorm, and rub elbows with Bob Proctor, Mark Victor Hansen, Michael and Rickie Beckwith, bestselling authors, Peggy McColl and Debbie Ford and a large number of others!

One Thursday morning, I was just finishing meditating. My husband was walking down the stairs and I had just informed him that my creation of having some big name supporters backing our publishing campaign of my soon-to-be-released book was complete. It really felt as if my intentions were perfectly synced up. Several hours later, Robert, my husband, sent an email to our publishing coach. When she returned his email, she wanted us to go on the cruise. Apparently she had an extra cabin and desired for us to have it. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not hard to grasp.

We considered it for only a half second and said to each other, ‘YES’. Friday we headed to Ft. Lauderdale, and that was that.

This is the power of being attuned with what you really want. That is, what you want, how you’re feeling about something and what comes to you is continuously a match. I love it when a thing like this happens. It feels like a huge green light from the Universe telling me I’m perfectly on track! A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Of course, this is not always the case. You can manifest your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your positive vibration!

“This is always going to be true: What I think and how I am feeling, and what manifests, is always a vibrational match. But here’s the most important part: What comes into your life is not manifesting at once. So, you’ve got all this buffer of time leeway that causes you to get sloppy… If you had a negative thought and a brick would instantaneously fall on your head each time, you would clean up your thinking. But you aren’t here to be admonished for your thinking. You are here to use your brain — and your focus — to manifest.”

~ Excerpted from an Abraham-Hicks workshop in Washington, DC. May 7th 2005.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Relationships Attraction: Rehashing The Dating Game – Play With Passion And What Matters Part II

Posted by on April 29, 2010 at 12:28 pm.

1. Being afraid of failure is very human

Perhaps in your past a relationship or two haven’t worked out. Well, there’s a club. That happens to each person on the planet. It does not determine any qualities concerning the nature of your self. It’s just something that occurred in the past. You would grant any number of your friends the ability to move on after a relationship that did not work out? Of course you would. Considering that failing is just creating an area for a different experience. Recall that dating (and life) is a game. To play and be present. Show up intending to have fun and find something new, not to find out how great you are or prove how unfixable you are. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today and increase your positive vibration!

Practice innocence and go all out. Just put it on and see how different it is. No one is out to steal something from you that you are not willing to give. Sure, there may be various things to expect from your date. There is nothing wrong with that. Simply and clear communication should should take care of that. Believe me, you’re going to have different expectations and points of compatibility. If you did not, you would get awfully bored of the person in a very short period of time. If you choose that you simply desired one play date, that is completely fine too. There’s no implied rejecting going on here. It’s just a decision on how you or he/she wants to spend their time. It’s simply a choice, not a rejection. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not difficult to understand.

2. Do you have a case of the not-enoughers?

Your internal monologue will say, “I’m not thin enough”, “I am not wealthy enough”; you know that noise. You’re just not enough. Remember that at the core, everyone has that ancient mental dialogue, too. You’re not the only one here.

Try your hardest to remain present and retaining your purpose when playing the dating game. Meaning, the point is to have fun. Think of it as exploring. “What’s something novel I can gather about myself or my date?” Project the energy just before your date. By that I mean to actively declare what you desire for your date. For example, “I intend to have fun and laugh on my date. I’m going to allow this to be simple and light.” Now you have just created an energetic route for your date. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you today to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Playing with passion and deliberation is an easy way to grow who you are in the moment. It’s a very different approach to dating. Practice passion by being all-out and expressive with the focus on having fun. Practice purpose by deliberately intending what you’re thinking. The bottom line is HAVE FUN.

The vibration of FUN is one of the highest in existence. Let it happen. Live and have fun. You will become a magnet for fun people and if you continue practicing that, eventually you’ll manifest your perfect lover.

It doesn’t matter if you’re 25 or 75 in the dating game – simply like your existence. If you approach your life as a fun game, where there are no losers, life goes much more smoothly for everyone.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law Of Attraction Relationships: Rehashing The Dating Game – Play With Energy And Innocence

Posted by on April 28, 2010 at 2:34 pm.

The dating game is just that, a game. It is a game you wrote the rules for. The problem is, people tend to forget you wrote these rules. You filed the rules away somewhere in your head and forgot where they’re located.

Of every game we might try, chess, scrabble, cards, or video games, don’t you think it’s odd that we can design and construct a game and then forget where you put the rules. It is even more peculiar that you forget that you were the person who made the rules and manifested the game. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you right now to free yourself from old limiting thought patterns that inhibit your happiness.

Following along this idea, how could a person do such a seemingly absurd thing? Well, it has to do with the tricky domain of the ego or the self-defeating persona that has come to be person someone calls by your name. You are not simply a collection of your previous experiences, your history, job title, connections and opinions. Though much of your conditioning and people around you would have you believe that. You can create your own Law of Attraction Relationships today to help increase your positive vibration!

To play the intentional dating game, you need to realize that:

1. You are playing a game.

2. You need to choose to remember that it is going to be enjoyable (because you designed it as a game for that purpose).

3. There are no winners or losers.

Try to remember when you were a child playing in the sandbox, making sandcastles and epic tales? Remember when you played tag or hide and seek? You used to play for hours and hours. It was simply plain and simple fun. Innocence. Try to access that innocent nature just for a minute right now. Using the Law of Attraction is an incredibly powerful tool for Relationship Attraction, and it’s simple to grasp.

Where did our innocence dissapear to? Why have so many of us forgotten it? In the previous paragraph notice how quickly it came back – if just for a moment – but it did return! That’s precisely how you manifest a desired outcome. You remember it into being, you play it into existence, you play it into reality for the sake of playing. And you know what? Your energy changes so quickly to that easy and high energy level, that unless you shut it down with old patterns and limiting self-defeating beliefs, you become very attractive. Your vibration is literally calling out to similar energy to interact with it.

The 2 Biggest Inhibitors to Intentional Dating

1. Fear of failiing/being rejected

2. Fear of embaressment/not enough

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law Of Attraction Coach: How To Find The Alignment To What You Desire

Posted by on April 22, 2010 at 11:55 am.

As soon as you have a desire, it’s as if you have fired a rocket, and the Universe sends one back. The only job you have to do is to allow, or realize energetic alignment with your desire. At first there is a break between you and what you want. You bring it into being by achieving the energetic harmony with that which you desire. This is done by finding that area of harmony. That’s the way to find energy harmony with your want. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams!

Tell the story of what you envision as if it has already manifested into existence, instead of your life experience in the present. This is precisely what Neville Goddard says; “Make your future goal a present fact”. Guard your alignment practice to a personal practice unless you have absolute support of friends and family. They probably won’t understand and may undermine your dreams.

Feel expectant and eager throughout your life. We are told by Abraham-Hicks that when you focus your attention on something for as little as seventeen seconds you pull it into your intention. Your vibrational influence starts to gain powerful momentum. Feeling well is evidence of your alignment with what you want. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

Obviously, when you want something, you have to initially notice it is not in your life. There’s an ingrained tendency to feel bad when we don’t have what we desire. Negative emotion gives us the difference to (or the opposite of) what IS desired. Negative feelings then turn into simply information. Our Inner Being is offering us negative emotion as a sign that we’re not lined up with who we really are, an extension of Source Energy, and in the power chair of creating our lives. Negative emotion tells us we are retaining a belief that we’re powerless to fulfill our own desires. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your outlook with expert life coaching.

So now we realize what to do with negative emotion. Find alignment. Look for reasons to love, reasons to smile, and love.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law Of Attraction Coach: How To Undo Old Limited Beliefs By Creating New Ones

Posted by on April 20, 2010 at 11:59 am.

Quantum Physics has discovered that the vibration of the Universe is conscious. It merges, considers, enfolds, and creates. Reality unfolds. Thought influences Universal vibration or conscious energy and it imprints the fabric of reality. This includes every thought – our thoughts. When intensified with energy, your emotions and feelings create amplitude, higher frequency and effectiveness.

Belief is an idea around which energy is encompassed. A belief is a thought that has been considered a lot. Thoughts are after a while molded into form or manifestation. After that we have the initial experience of what arose out of a belief. That is how our inevitably limiting beliefs create our world from the view of modern physics. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

We often imagine creating with our thoughtsbut, it is your vested emotional interest that amplifies the powerful impact. The heart’s energy and magnetic field is 5000 times stronger than that of the mind. This is why I always coach you to ‘feel’ your intentions.

Quantum measurements have proven that intentional thought has the power to change the nature of atomic particles. We can alter electric and magnetic expression as waves and thoughts manifested and making imprints on the physical world with our thoughts.

These things may lead you to ask, if intentions are so creative, then why does so much stay in the same spot for so long? Why does it seem to take a long time to process the desires that I want manifested? This is just due to what has been taken as ‘true.’ Change your beliefs, change the outcome. It’s really that easy. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your outlook with great life coaching.

The subconscious mind processes information 500,000 times faster than the conscious mind. When allowed the choice between what’s conscious and what is in the subconscious, the subconscious wins every time. So turn conscious what is unconscious by noticing how you’re feeling. Your feelings are guidance to what is happening internally, and will show you every time when a limiting belief is in your way.

Bruce Lipton tells us that when it comes to the process of analyzing information the subconscious mind is over a million times more powerful than the conscious mind. Do not turn on automatic (unconscious) pilot when you desire to make a new life experience. You wish to make a successful business? Get intentional. Maybe you desire a love relationship that will knock your socks off? Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who is everything you have ever wanted in a lover. Get specific on what you want and how it feels to ‘already’ have it. Activate the feelings, emotions and the heart’s energetic field.

Thought charged with emotion is energy. It can be conscious or unconscious. You’re the only one who can choose your thoughts and emotions. Turn over the old programs by meaningfully choosing your feelings and thoughts.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law of Attraction Coach Says: Let Yourself Off the Hook, It’s Your Right

Posted by on April 15, 2010 at 12:50 pm.

Perhaps you’ve been told about the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mindset. You know the sort of thinking that believes, “if I cannot have something, you cannot either.” It is a way of invalidating someone else’s success by pulling them down to their level. This sometimes gets shown by a friend or family member who does not approve of or discourages you from reaching for a greater goal or going beyond things that are typically the norm for the culture. We’ve all been there.

It is the same with tribe mentality. The tribe is used to help each other and keep the culture safe and thriving. Every person has an explicitly delineated and very important role and function. If you desired to reach beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I can’t expand beyond what the tribe teaches, that would mean I would be ostracised and suffer certain death”. You would be exiled without food or water and without another tribe for many miles.

However, you are wired to create. Your inherent nature is to expand, express, want, and manifest. Then reach for another fun project or dream to reach. I read that prior to reaching five years old, they have heard the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It would seem that our nature and our culture are conflicted with one another.

It is no wonder conflicting beliefs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success bring us down most of the time. It’s been stamped into our subconscious. This is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like static from your head when you have two conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance becomes uncomfortable and begs for resolution. It gets resolved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known patterns, or by letting go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.

It is a small wonder with the programming we have inherited that it can be so difficult to make any lasting changes. You see, it is not your fault. Don’t blame yourself and pile more negativity on yourself. You’re not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who has every quality you have ever desired in a partner.

It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your word is attractive. And even more powerfully, your thoughts in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the limiting programming in the face and confidently declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the support of the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/

Law of Attraction Coach Tells You How to Be a Magnet to What You Want

Posted by on April 13, 2010 at 12:05 pm.

Few of us go about on a daily basis truly realizing how we are feeling every second. We’ve all experienced putting on auto-pilot and going through the motions of life. Actually, putting your efforts on auto-pilot can be quite advantageous. Most likely if it means finishing a simple task like raking leaves or peeling potatoes. When you fall into the habit of a repetitious action, the thing can almost become a meditation. Provided you aren’t sustaining a complaint or negative thought around in your mind, being truly present with a repetitive action can be very soothing and centering. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.

Being on auto-pilot may be fine for these sorts of tasks, but when talking about meaningful movement of creative energy, you want to hone in slightly more deeply to what is actually happening to your energy level. Doing some investigative work on your true vibration will help you see where you need to remove some resistance or static off the line. When you have a clear, uncluttered transmission, your desires come more smoothly and without the mixed bag of things you’re used to getting. For example, say you want a love partner. You attract a lover, but due to the fact that you are afraid of being truly emotionally attached, he ends up living a hundred miles away. Maybe you imagine you are emotionally capable, but if you’re getting a muddled result, then you are transmitting a mixed message. A Law of Attraction Coach can assist you in completely changing your experience with great life coaching.

Have a look at your tightly held beliefs. Ask your inner monologue. Is it really true? Does holding on to a limiting line of thinking serve you? What are some of your self-sabotaging behaviors? Ironically, most of the things we hold to be true concerning the world around us are not true. They are beliefs we’ve been born into. Pose a question about yourself and then hone in to listen for an answer. Your inner guide will show you interesting insights if you are willing to allow yourself to hear them. Law of Attraction Love Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your most wonderful fantasies! Imagine a partner who has every quality you have ever wanted in a partner.

Life was originally supposed to be for you to be a success, happy, and fulfilled. We all came into the world with perfectly intact guiding systems sending us to the area of our joy and self-expression. Hone back in to your thoughts and emotions. Pick the brightest and best thoughts and emotions possible. Create with a clear signal and you will put yourself back in the creative cockpit of your life.

You can learn more secrets to relationship attraction in my FREE VIDEO from the new DVD, “7 Secrets to Find and Keep the Love of Your Dreams.” Just go to http://www.magneticattractioncoaching.com/