A big key is to understand what you desire without focusing on the lack of having it.

How Do You Go Closer to What You Desire While Not Noticing The Absence Of It?

You probably see what’s wanted in a point of lacking. If not, you would not even want it, you’d have already gotten it. So look at for a moment on what you desire and instantly start experiencing and pretending what your desire WILL be like WHEN it shows up. Let loose more, stimulate your inner child’s innocence and creativity and imagine it into existence. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is hugely powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not hard to understand.

Cut To The Most Important Part

Go into the feel mode, the experience of already HAVING it. Ponder and learn to understand what the ESSENCE of the feeling of already having your want, event or relationship come to pass. Be it. Feel it. Go Swimming in it. Not only will you be a powerful broadcaster of the joyful fulfillment of your desires, you’ll also be the magnetic ATTRACTOR and ALLOWING them, too! That’s what I did in creating the love of my dreams.

We Do Not Create Abundance

“We don’t create abundance. Abundance is always present. We present limited perception. We are the Source of abundance. We are the attractors of all we experience. The ultimate tool is Appreciation.” – Arnold Patent

When you halt resistant energy and begin to appreciate, you create a space, you create a vortex for your desires to fulfill. They’ve always been in your life – the love, the abundance, the freedom. You’re resisting them by voicing “they aren’t here”, “more money is leaving than coming in”, “he will not fix his room.” These thoughts are your message to the Universe for more of the previously created situation. If you do not want that, take control! If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get support! Using an unbiased listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much more quickly.

Begin appreciating the perfection of everything, your life, this process, your home, your money, your kids. The only tool is Appreciation.

Imagine the word that’s the antonym of Appreciation – it is depreciation. If like manifests like, that which you focus your appreciation on expands. It appreciates. What you focus your depreciation on expands in depreciation. It depreciates.

Try it out. Prove me (and the Universe) wrong. And tell me how it’s working out.

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What if your mind, the current mindset was that everything – exactly as it is currently – without any changes, or desire for any change, was perfect?

This is the definition of an UNCONDITIONAL LIFE.

Ponder that a minute. Living Unconditionally means that not one thing needs to be changed for you to enjoy freedom, happiness, peace, abundance, and being completely fulfilled. What a concept.

Often we as meaningful attractors want to understand what’s in the way of manifesting what we want. I know I see myself in this mindset sometimes. Life gets busy and I often forget to project my most important desire – to feel happy – around with me all day. Stuff happens. For example, an angry conversation with a friend, and I get on my high horse for a little while and talk about how it should not be the way it is. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Having an independent listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much faster.

Of course, I know that’s counter to what I desire – to feel good. However, sometimes, my ego desires to take front and center. And it will – but not for long.

I remember to accept what is occurring for everything that it is. Have a look in the mirror, strip any judgment from the event, person or yourself. Then release it. I embrace what is, no matter what it seems like. You can attract perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you release yourself from fear and bondage.

Remember the idea is to be in harmony with what you WANT. Everyone desires to know what our particular blocks are to having what we want. However, focusing on what’s keeping you and receiving what you desire is in direct opposition to the Law of Attraction. Meaning, you should long to desire to seek what is in the way, so that you can ease yourself, branch off that and start moving downstream in the direction of what it feels like to have what you DO desire.

Consider what your life would be like if you could bring into the world what you wanted, if you weren’t in the ALLOWING mode. Then you’d have no idea how you were getting the things you had. You would not understand your personal emotional guidance system. You wouldn’t know how to model and redo attracting and manifesting. It would be the Law of Variability – there’d be no congruity and that’s no law at all. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.

The Law of Attraction keeps things stable and constant with no variances involved. The main point to understand is that a Universal Law is constant under all circumstance.

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Laughter is truly an excellent medicine for whatever ails you. Now obviously when you do not find anything humorous, it’s hard to make yourself laugh. Correct? Or is it? The Law of Attraction is a powerful tool for positive realization for your life.

Attempt this: Simply exhale with a heavy emphasis on the connotation ‘HA’. And try breathing through the diaphragm. The diaphragm is a little exercised part of our bodies. When you work with your diaphragm and lower torso in this way, you are receiving much fuller breaths. You oxygenate your blood and mind. Now attempt exhaling on the syllables in rapid succession HA-HA-HA-HA-HA. Extend your belly, while you are doing this exercise, you’ve now engaged the diaphragm. Now attempt it changing up the frequency, the volume. Then stretch it out.

You can try this in your car, going to and from work or on a break. I realize it seems silly. But silly is GOOD. Try this with a friend. If you play in company, I guarantee you will both end up laughing for real. It’s hard to do this without activating a real bellow. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to check in with will help you move away from outdated patterns much faster.

A method to heighten your vibe quickly is Toning. Just like singing, but you create a tone for the sake of having sound reverberate through your body. You aren’t going for a pretty tone, simply sound for the sake of sound. The sound you make is the correct sound. Feel it move into your nose, your throat, ribcage. Experience the breath and sound frequency seeping into your body. Do it for a a little while to as long as you like. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.

Remember, these are easy and goofy, fun and are only for the sake of doing. I will bet you’ve got a few energy tools you use and you do not even realize it. Anything you do to take a break from feeling bored, blank, uninterested and drained. It could be playing with or bouncing a ball, watching insects, blowing bubbles. I keep a small bottle of bubbles on my desk. Get up and stretch, do some exercises. It’s a way of tuning into your body. And remember to stay hydrated. Drink a lot of water. Drinking water does not just hydrate, it grounds you too. Remember your body is a bundle of energetic fields. Take great care of you on every level. When you use energy shifting tools, you’ll be less likely to reach for that caffeine and sugar crutch.

You’ll begin being in the now more often. And remember, the current moment is always the most powerful place to be.

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What you’re presently going through in life is a snapshot of what you have been projecting in your energy field. The good news is that can quickly change what you project at the point when you clear out the old habits of thinking that have kept your stinking thinking stuck. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive manifestation for your life.

Reason 1: Anxiety

It doesn’t matter if it is every day anxiety or anxiety related to the problem of not enough money, anxiety is like placing a big red STOP sign to the Universe. The Universe is non-judgmental, and just projects back to you more things to feel anxiety about. So whether you are worried about money, or some other negative emotion, do whatever it takes to soothe your anxiety. And I am not suggesting you bury your anxiety deeper into your subconscious. Just realize what you are thinking and pivot that thinking to the direction of thoughts of appreciation for all the gifts in your life right now.

Reason 2: Complaining

Do you realize you are being annoyed by the lousy waiter at a restaurant, aggravated at a stupid cab driver, or griping about your child’s messy room? Even though these complaints aren’t concerning money, your energy projects more for the Universe to mirror back to you. Constant complaining and criticizing instantly close the heart chakra down. The vibration of your heart is 5000 times more potent than that of the brain. Retain an open heart. Practice release and forgiveness as much as you can to keep your receiving heart open. You can attract wonderful Law of Attraction Relationships when you free yourself from fear and bondage.

Reason 3: Defending Your Limitations

Thoughts that justify your current mindset are just excuses you think are true. Why continue to call things the way they occur if you don’t like it the way they are? How about trying a new story. Tell it like you want it to be, rather than how you see it. “But is that not just wishing for change?” It may be wishing, but it isn’t ONLY wishful thinking, it’s creative thinking. The only job you have is to experience the emotion of what that ‘wish’ will feel like when it’s actually here. “Yeah, but…”

The economy is tanked and I can’t get above water.

I’ve continuously struggled with money.

I have a lot of debt.

I can’t make ends meet.

You can’t put faith in people with lots of money.

In any slow economy plenty of people have made multi-millions. The rest are simply plain bad excuses. Grab a hold of these thoughts that run in the background and put a muzzle on them. Choose more empowering thinking. The more you embrace positive thoughts, the more you’ll choose actions that sync with wealth-producing activities. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not hard to grasp.

To keep all good things coming to you make it your life-long practice to enjoy and love as much as you can – as much as you can.

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Firstly, I highly commend this person for asking this question. Number one, he acknowledges that part of his active thoughts and feelings are negative. Many people I know working with the Law of Attraction, especially the self-titled ‘spiritual’ ones, deny that they have any negativity present in their energy. It wouldn’t be spiritual after all. Please!

It is of utmost importance to know what’s going off in your mind and take control of it. The fact that you think and feel this way indicates that it’s active in your vibration. You will continue attracting situations that mirror back to you reasons to experience anxiety and dissapointment. Using the Law of Attraction is hugely helpful for Relationship Attraction, and it’s not hard to understand.

Einstein said: No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it. He was talking about tapping into the a higher order of being. For me that means releasing into Universal Love and Abundance, or the Divine organizing power of Source. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could just flip a switch and let go and let God, as they say? Simpler theorized than put into practice most of the time for many of us. However, you can start by committing to a daily practice of looking for aspects of your life to be grateful for. Look for the love and goodness in your life as it is right now. That is a gigantic and immediate vibration raiser.

If you can do your best to make peace with where you are you’ll instantly be letting go of resisting what you want. Do not worry that making peace with your present circumstances will attract more of it to you. It won’t. But you will be doing the very important step of releasing resistance. You see, prolonged attention on your circumstances causes you to attract more of that same stuff. So easing up a bit and searching for aspects in your life to appreciate will open your vibration. You cannot hold your attention on a thing and exclude it from your vibration.

After you’ve clarified what you desire to attract into your life, the next step is to find out what thoughts and feelings you actually have concerning the likelihood of your manifesting what you want. Is self-worth part of it? Is your track record and the past getting your attention? I suggest journaling what is present in your beliefs and then making affirmations that soften a little with each one until you can perceive what it is like to already be experiencing what you desire as if it is present right now.

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As soon as you accept your current circumstances, PRECISELY as they are with no need to change a thing for you to feel good, then you’re in the mode of allowance.

Everything you imagine you want, is so you’ll experience a feeling you hope will come once you get what you desire.

You want money. What life will that bring you?

You want prestige. What emotional response will that bring you?

You want true love. What changes will that bring you?

You want physical well-being. What experience will that bring you?

head straight to the feeling place. When you do this you are in energetic alignment with your wants. Stay there many times a day and you’ll be manifesting the things you desire.

If you are complaining about your circumstances, how insufficient your career is, how you hate being single, how terrible the economy is, you’re rejecting well-being from flowing to you. If you need the support of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Using an independent listener to talk to will help you move off old patterns much more quickly.

Your vibration doesn’t have to be just resistant in the topic of money to be resisting wealth. Resistance as a whole is resisting. If you complain all the time, if you criticize, find fault and judge ANYTHING you’re resistant to what you want. Start empowering yourself right now and experience Law of Attraction Love.

Make peace with your life precisely as it is at this moment. Practice appreciate what you have as long as you can as many times a day as you can. Do not stress over the ‘how’ and ‘when’ it needs to appear. Do not micro-manage the Universe by explaining how your life is going to unfold. Your only job is to be in the mode of getting what you desire by practicing experiencing goodness and allowing it in.

It is not your fault that you have learned low expectation, experience anxiety, or critique people. After all, didn’t we learn, “the squeaky wheel receives the oil?” We all received these habits of thinking from our upbringing. It isn’t your fault, but it is on you to change your habits if you no longer want to take what is handed to you. Find out how to choose your thoughts and emotions intentionally. Then you will be a deliberate creator instead of a victim of circumstance.

Nothing is wrong with wanting to be fulfilled in any and all areas of life. Make note of the internal dialogue you have about your worthiness, or the chance of your desires being fulfilled and just keep choosing a more empowering inner conversation. Life is supposed to be good and you are worthy. The power truly is in your hands.

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We are raised with a lot of mixed messages about what a relationship is. Most of said misconceptions come from our fractured family lives and TV and from deep down in our subconscious. But these days, in far greater numbers than ever, people are looking for meaningful connections, heart healing, hope, and freedom from the shackles of their thoughts. Luckily, the answers are inside of you. It is not about being better than everyone else, having the correct background, career or college education, mingling with the right people, speed dating or joining the right online dating service. The Law of Attraction is a wonderful tool for positive manifestation in your life.

“God’s will for me is perfect happiness” This is a workbook lesson from “A Course in Miracles.” Oftentimes I think spiritual people do not realize it is okay to have desires, goals and aspirations. This is our innate creative impulse. Manifested in the image and likeness, it is part of who we are to have the urge to create and manifest our desires in ways that are helpful to you. Coming together in relationships is one of the ways we create, heal, and remind ourselves of who we are. Oftentimes I have found my marriage to be the base for joyous personal expansion, the mirror for my tender ego and opportunity to deeply let go and allow God in. It’s all those things and so much more.

If being in mutually affectionate, lasting love relationship is a prospect that makes your heart sing, and once you truly understand that God desires for you to be wonderfully full of life, creatively motivated, healed and joyous, the only issue question remaining is “Why do you imagine you have not experienced success?” The simple answer is fear. Fear manifests in many different disguises, justifications, and excuses. In the end, we fear understanding ourselves as the love that we are. You can manifest perfect Law of Attraction Relationships when you release yourself from fear and bondage.

It’s not un-spiritual to desire love, sex, fun, intimacy, laughter, and play. It’s un-spiritual to hide your passions and your talent. I get fear, I was one of the most resisting people I knew in the area of truly letting my guard down. If you want to experience your life in perfect partnership you have to reclaim your power, take 100 percent responsibility for your messes and ask for Spirit to take over. Obviously what you have been trying hasn’t been working. Einstein said, “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it”. You have to take it to a higher level. Thankfully we have self-help sessions, trained professionals, counselors, coaches and even home study courses to assist us in seeing what’s blocking us from building lasting loving relationships.

A loving, fulfilling intimate relationship is possible for any person who desires it. Will it always be fun? No. The ego would never let you off the hook that easily. But I’m certain that what you are seeking is seeking you. So get some assistance to help you move the blocks out of your way, and I wish you all the bliss your heart can hold.

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I got the Law of Attraction principles and figured I was functioning correctly in implementing those principles. But, there was a part that was continuously missing.

As a Law of Attraction Coach, I’m very clear in saying that those of us who really desire to have a relationship that causes your heart to soar – not just any type of relationship – but a really amazing, abundant, love partnership – it takes a special kind of honed desire.

Many people who are trying to understand the Law of Attraction and how it can work for them in their lives are really asking, “What do I need to change? Is there something that I can do differently? What I’ve been trying isn’t going anywhere.” You can manifest Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of creative potential!

So you’ve been asking, and desiring a wonderful, committing love relationship and you desire to understand, where is he? Why do I continue to manifest the wrong guy?

Let us go over some Law of Attraction basics.

In understanding the Law of Attraction, we have established that our cosmos is a vibrating Universe – that everything is composed of energy. This energy is in continuous movement and expansion and is vibrating unceasingly. Everything IS energy. Your thoughts, your shoes, solar systems, animals… everything. The contents of your mind are energy and have the capability to manifest. Your thoughts are manifest if you understand the Law of Attraction or not.

The question is, “What kinds of things are going through your head? What quality do your thoughts have? Are you giving watch to your wants from a point of expectation or a point of negativity?

By honed desire I mean the kind of want that is placed uncompromisingly on that which you want from the point of view of already having what it is you’re trying to manifest, instead of being focused in opposition to what you want.

As we know, the Law of Attraction explains that “what you focus your mind on will manifest increasingly in your life experience. So it is of utmost importance to understand whether you are wanting from a perspective of lack or from a perspective of already having it.

Desiring from the perspective of lack (that is, looking at the lack of it as in ‘Where is it?’) places you in the resisting mode. In other words, the Universe vibrationally mirrors your thoughts, what you expect, and your beliefs concerning your mind – you’re projecting a dominant frequency in the area of love – with past events and people that match your beliefs.

I just got off the phone with a woman in my Magnetic Attraction Program. She wants to understand why her complaining, negative friend just got engaged, while she remains single and lonely. Did you see what just happened? Can you guess why? Does this sound like you? Number 1 keep your mind on your vibration. What another is doing is not any of your concern. If you are comparing what is out there to what is happening in your life, you will be doomed each time. Conscious creation is something you do inside. Think and feel your way to what you desire. Number 2, this woman has her attention honed on staying single and alone. The universe will simply respond to that! The Universe says: “Oh, Mary desires more of the single and lonely experience. We love her very much and would never go against her free will. Let’s give her more of what she is wanting”.

The program that I was using was “I am playing it safe and perpetually keep a little back. That way if my relationship goes south, I can simply get out without too much hurt”.

If you are single and wanting lasting love, ask yourself: “What is my dominant vibration or limited belief about the possibility for a real relationship?” Surface up those blocks, think and feel your way to a better feeling place. You can shift your point of attraction instantly. Now all there is to do is continue there and enjoy the results.

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Stress is energy. Albeit negative energy. Stress is the experience we have when the brain sends out instructions that follow with an emotional reaction (perhaps anxiety, depression, or rage), a signal, or a reaction that is not appropriate for the current situation. By not appropriate I mean, “the fight or flight mechanism is triggered and there isn’t a saber-toothed tiger after you. No one is pointing a gun to your head. But we run those chemicals regardless.

By toughing or tapping meridian points, “the ancient study of Acupuncture, we can start to alleviate the stress“ so it doesn’t build up in the body. It begins to eliminate the negativity in our vibration so we can change ourselves to a more attractive state, or more in sync with our wants. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means go get it! Using an unbiased listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.

Leading edge brain science and Quantum Physics are creating huge scientific strides in telling us how to change habitual ways of thought.

Now I will teach you an extremely cool energy tool. It’s named Temporal Tapping.

The left hemisphere of the brain is more aligned to critiquing and apt to question… so we slip it past the critical mindset by tapping a statement put in a negative way. Such as… “I am not anxious anymore concerning my career security”.

Beginning on the left side of your head at the temple. Tap with 3 fingers of your left hand, tap your temple, going around the back of the ear. Make firm contact and make a bit of a hop around the back of the ear until you reach the base of the head. You can manifest Law of Attraction Relationships right now and sky-rocket your level of positive energy!

Tap and speak the sentence with the NO affirmation five times on the Left side and then we’ll do the technique again on the right hemisphere with the positive phrase. “I no longer have anxiety concerning my career security.”

The right hemisphere of your brain is more willing to accept things and to go with the flow. You do the same thing, but this time beginning at the right temple and around the right ear. And say while tapping: “I’m an extremely valued employee. What I contribute is recognized by my employer.”

With regular you will dissipate most emotional and stressful charges extremely easily. Try it frequently. I know you’ll love the result.

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If you can vibrationally project what you truly desire, flow that energy, essence, feeling state in advance, you’ll be in the mindset of attraction and begin to tell the Universe what it is you actually want to manifest into your life.

What kind of energy do I harmonize with for manifesting my ideal work (especially considering I don’t even realize what that is yet?) If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to check in with will help you move off old patterns much faster.

What kind of visualizations should I enact for letting in the perfect situation, e.g., the dream property for my retreats, the perfect outcomes for my present job, better relationships with my boss and co-workers, manifesting the perfect committed love relationship?

I always recommend that you jot down what you and how you want to feel after you have acquired that which you desire. What kinds of things do you want to experience, and get as particular as you like. If you see resisting energy surfacing when getting specific, simply back tone your thoughts down to a more general scope. And tap on the resistance. Empowering yourself with the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationship Attraction, and is not hard to grasp.

The Universe sees what you desire – you want peace flowing to you in the various forms happiness can take in our physical experience – more money and freedom, creative expression, love and companionship, expressing our talents in the world with inventions, designs, and generosity of every sort. It is our God-nature to create and express in the world. The nature of God is infinite expression and unboundedness, and your nature is that too.

At times we do not even know exactly what we want. For example, in your job, in a relationship, in the body, etc. But what we DO understand is how we want to feel as a result of that more general desire.

Happiness is our natural state. We have all been told to cut it out for a variety of reasons, primarily our upbringing. You are now your own person, and now we know that we can consciously choose how we feel. Rather than being at the effect of what’s going on ‘out there.’ It’s an inside job, remember?

Let us say you’ve started to ponder what that experience (having your desire fulfilled) feels like. And you have shifted your attention and intention into place around that subject or subjects.

The biggest question we can pose to ourselves to clarify our desires is: “How will I feel when I have what I desire?” Thoughts are electrical in nature and they transmit. Emotions are magnetic in nature and they attract.

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