These are the results from a study taken by a well-known dating site.
Choose the most important features of a lover:
1. Looks 11%
2. Personality 30%
3. Physique 5%
4. Sense of Humor 14%
5. Eyes 10%
6. Popularity 0%
7. Smile 12%
8. Hair 7%
9. Education 7%
10. Career 3%
So you see, personality rated top, overwhelmingly!
What does this mean for a person? What does it say about two people dating? It says that personality, no matter what side of the table you are on, is a desired trait from either person’s point of view.
Now, ‘Looks’ is in many cases categorized as an external representation of a person’s persona. But as I’ve explained, ‘Personality’ was ranked at the top. Personality, self-confidence, an engaging manner, warmth, and being authentic are the characteristics that win out over visual appearance. There are a lot of us are caught up on physical appearance, we get stopped before we begin. If you need the help of a Law of Attraction Coach, by all means get support! Having an independent listener to talk to can help you move off outdated patterns much more quickly.
What are traits of personality? Confidence. Self-confidence to be exact. The capability to relax, enjoy, and communicate in relaxed and engaging subjects. Using the Law of Attraction is amazingly powerful for Relationships Attraction, and it’s not difficult to grasp.
What are inherent characteristics of being confident in yourself?
1. Knowing what you desire.
2. Self-assurance. Feeling sure that what you want is within your grasp.
3. Esteem. Realizing you’re worthy of what you want.
4. Poise. In most circumstances you remain non-plussed.
What I’m pointing to is the non-physical characteristics of ‘Personality’. An engaging personality has nothing to do with physical looks. You can attract your own Law of Attraction Relationships right now and increase your level of creative potential!
A lot of people I know, whether they are getting back into the dating game, or just considering it get halted with forces of the scene. “I’m not a spring chicken anymore.” “I can’t compete with the attractive people.” “The singles game seems so superficial.”
This kind of mental dialogue will never allow you back into circulation. Being confident, having an engaging attitude, and simply having a ready, real smile and being kind, are the winners of the day. Remember that you do not have to do the singles dating scene. You can meet Mr. or Ms. Right in a department store, at church, on a bike ride, anywhere. Do not define yourself by what others say.
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