Perhaps you’ve been told about the ‘Bucket of Crab’ mindset. You know the sort of thinking that believes, “if I cannot have something, you cannot either.” It is a way of invalidating someone else’s success by pulling them down to their level. This sometimes gets shown by a friend or family member who does not approve of or discourages you from reaching for a greater goal or going beyond things that are typically the norm for the culture. We’ve all been there.
It is the same with tribe mentality. The tribe is used to help each other and keep the culture safe and thriving. Every person has an explicitly delineated and very important role and function. If you desired to reach beyond (as is our very nature) you literally risked the safety of the tribe. You’re taught: “I can’t expand beyond what the tribe teaches, that would mean I would be ostracised and suffer certain death”. You would be exiled without food or water and without another tribe for many miles.
However, you are wired to create. Your inherent nature is to expand, express, want, and manifest. Then reach for another fun project or dream to reach. I read that prior to reaching five years old, they have heard the word ‘No’ over sixty thousand times! It would seem that our nature and our culture are conflicted with one another.
It is no wonder conflicting beliefs, critiquing mental monologue and fear of success bring us down most of the time. It’s been stamped into our subconscious. This is known as cognitive dissonance. It’s like static from your head when you have two conflicting thoughts at the same time. This dissonance becomes uncomfortable and begs for resolution. It gets resolved in one of two methods. Either by falling back on old, known patterns, or by letting go of the old to reach for a better place mentally. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your experience with expert life coaching.
It is a small wonder with the programming we have inherited that it can be so difficult to make any lasting changes. You see, it is not your fault. Don’t blame yourself and pile more negativity on yourself. You’re not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling past your wildest dreams! Think of a partner who has every quality you have ever desired in a partner.
It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You’ve always had the ability to choose who you are and control that. Your word is attractive. And even more powerfully, your thoughts in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the limiting programming in the face and confidently declare another possibility for yourself. You were meant to thrive and create. You have the support of the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful as a result of the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
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