A common problem for clients of mine is their assumption that they have to lose 50 pounds and/or be financially independent prior to being able to attract long-standing love. This is of course a myth. This is just low self-esteem blocking you from being truly whole.
It’s wonderful to want to look your best, feel your best, have high self-esteem and be ok concerning your money situation. It feels really wonderful to feel stable, confident, and attractive.
There are a HUGE number of industries that feed on peoples’ poor sense of self-image. At some time or other, we have all succumbed to paying for that hot new piece of exercise equipment that promises to make it simple for us to tone up, slim down and have a beautiful body. Supplements, special diets or dieting plans, products for our hair, skin, teeth, libido, all of it! And these messages are all aimed at one simple idea – that we are not inherently OK the way we come.
We’re so accustomed to this type of thinking that we never even realize [what is. It is no surprise that we subscribe to this. After all, when we are born, at the beginning of our existence, we are admired and treated as perfection – at least most of the time. Then almost immediately we’re compared to how our older sibling evolved, at what age they developed this ability, learning to sit, crawling, language, and so on. Our hair, our bodies and how they are the same or different to the other one or that. “Oh, she looks similar to Aunt Mary when she was that age.” You understand the pattern.
Begin by analyzing your early beliefs and emotions about your body. Most people do not even realize that they have stuck limiting vibrations or feelings from these early experiences. Negativity, whether pervading or subtle, feels bad and most of us just teach ourselves to bury it, deal with it, or drive it farther into the unconscious. These intense emotional experiences tend to stay subjugated. We’ve all used the term “emotional baggage.” We walk around with old unresolved, paining, intense feelings still held somewhere in us. These emotions transmit to the Universe to mirror back more of the same. You can free yourself by improving your self-esteem.
Start to transform your connection with yourself by making lists of what you appreciate about you. What really works about your body? What can you appreciate concerning your appearance? Think of 10 things each day that you truly appreciate about your body. Do you like your senses? Are you thankful for functioning fingers? Make lists of the positive things about you and watch your energy and vibrational point of attraction start to improve. You CAN improve your self-esteem and attract love.
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