“I often tend to create the one who is emotionally unavailable. What should I do to change my vibration”? This is a question that came from one of my clients. Coincidentally, that was the main complaint I had from my long history of failed relationships. They were either emotionally inept, lived out of town or was travelling all the time.
When you keep creating unavailable relationships, my question to you is, “Is something in you that has a fear of commitment, or afraid to be truly open in a love relationship”? That may be hard to accept at the moment, but that’s what I have found to be the situation in most cases.
As a relationship life coach, I provide Relationship Life Coaching for Women. I also suggest that you get very clear about what you want. Get clear by creating a list of the qualities you desire in your perfect mate.
You make the list for yourself so you can attain clear concerning what it is you really want. You’ll start to see where any inconsistencies are in yourself as you make the list. You’ll see where you need to go to work on your level of expectation or belief in the chance of receiving what you are desiring.
To bring out the state of feeling happy expectancy, continue by asking yourself the question “Why do I want this”? It’s time to engage your imagination. When you answer this question, think of all the fun things you’ll do together. Think of grinning, holding hands, and introducing him to your girlfriends. Envision what it will be like to be with someone who is romantic and loves to bring you flowers. Seek assistance from a life coach today.
You make the list for yourself, and the Universe responds to your clarity – the undiluted intention and unresisted desire!
Many of us have been told from childhood to accept whatever you get, it’s not kosher to ask for anything, why can’t you just be content with what you have? – kind of like brainwashing. I say you ask for it all and continue creating yourself into the alignment of your affirmations.
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