“I am afraid of being hurt again, but I truly want to find my soul mate. How can I increase confidence and find my soul mate”?
You have two ways to go here. 1) You can mope until you have had adequate time in between the pain in your past relationship or 2) start moving on and releasing the past. Since you want to find your soul mate, then I would begin the task of releasing. It’s quicker and simpler than you’d think. Getting assistance from a certified relationship life coach can smooth the path.
Being guided to do release work is a path of releasing and letting go from your previous relationship. Think of releasing your emotions and letting go as forgiveness. You are making energetic area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to reside in.
I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really needs to be let off the hook for his actions. He wronged me and that is just that”! The will it takes to keep a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy level and over time, it will deplete you, if it has not already. Furthermore, that little energy leak prevents you from letting all of your mind focused in this present moment. When you do not have your power in the moment, do you imagine you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It becomes that much more difficult. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of the past, of judgements that weigh you down, muss up your energy field and block you from going in the right direction to creating the life you were born to live. You can increase the speed of this process immensely by getting help from a life coach.
I find that the idea of forgiveness can be a complicated one. First off, I’m not speaking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It’s important to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to understand how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you want to spend your life and with whom. It’s essential to understand what works for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!
Until you clear the area of pain, you’ll either attract more pain or have a hard time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, expunge the old pain, then release and let in new love.
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