Single people who come to me to grasp the Law of Attraction to attract love often ask me for coaching. These people wonder, “Can you attract an incompatible lover?” The answer to that is Yes and No. I will elaborate. You attract the “Wrong” lover based on what it is you project you desire. That is, your words are projecting “I want someone who’s fun, caring, and passionate. Someone who treats me well” but your dominant expectation is something more to the tune of … “I never meet the right woman. Why do my friends have such an easy route? What’s wrong with me? Where are all of the single wonderful women? And so on. So you’re going to end up attracting more concerning what you’re subconsciously wanting and what you are expecting to occur. So is she incorrect? Perhaps, is your thinking wrong? The Law of Attraction says what you focus on you attain more of. So if you’re single and are looking for a relationship, you need to focus on what it is like to be in love, not the other way around.
A good practice to change your thinking on this is by using a strong tool that Abraham-Hicks coaches called Book of Positive Aspects. This is a powerful tool for creating a Love with the Law of Attraction.
You should use this tool when you find you experience a lot of negative vibrations and need to continue changing the direction of your intention and find a happier feeling place. When you desire to improve your point of attraction since you’ve got some negative vibrations. Here’s how it works: you need to do this with paper and pencil to help acquire the hang of the exercise. I truly recommend that you never cease to handwrite a Book of Positive Aspects. You will wish to set aside at least 15 minutes for this exercise.
At the top of the page write the area of what you want a more harmonious vibrational set point on. Maybe a subject has gotten your attention that you don’t like, you’d prefer to not have it occurring, or maybe you’ve acquired a good bit of judgment about it and resent yourself for it. Write down what that is. Now notice that you know what you don’t want and the contrast has helped you to hone the desire of what you actually want. Your task is to put down in detail you want. And continue turning your attention to the better feeling desire. Write lists of what you like about what IS working, what’s good, what you have that you DO like, even concerning the current life situation. Search for things to be appreciative of in the situation and in any outside or related situation. This will turn you to the positive attraction mode. You’ll create what you desire rather than its opposite. Test it out for yourself. Isn’t it time you had everything you wanted?
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